Rolex was out to dinner a few nights ago at our favorite little Italian restaurant. We had come home from a hard day at work and were feeling excited about going out, relaxing, eating good food and being together. After devouring our meals, our server brought the check and let us know there was no need for payment because it had already been taken care of. Shocked, we looked around the restaurant to see if we knew anyone. The server kindly pointed out the genleman who paid for our dinner and we had no idea who he was! We made our way over to thank him for his act of kindness and let him know how grateful we were. When asked why he decided to make the kind gesture, he said that he periodically chooses people to buy dinner for and that we looked like we were enjoying ourselves and thought we might like an all-expenses-paid dinner.
The kind gesture warmed our hearts and reinforced our faith in humanity. Rod and I discussed it in-depth that evening and we began to think about how seldom we commit random acts of kindess. Perhaps the world would be a better place if we made it a point to pay it forward on a regular basis? Sorry to get so "mushy", I just feel inspired by the act and feel the need to inspire others! I would like to think that for every act of kindness it could be paid forward exponentially. Potentially creating incalculable amounts of happiness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote, "In the order of nature we cannot render benefits to those from whom we receive them, or only seldom. But the benefit we receive must be rendered again, line for line, deed for deed, cent for cent, to somebody."
In other words, pay it forward!
Have you ever been the victim or perpetrator of a random act of kindness?




12 comments:
Goosebumps! That is amazing and really does remind you that in a world of evil there is also a world of good.
Makes me want to go out there and pay it forward. And I will :).
Love this post!
I adore the idea of Pay It Forward. I honestly believe that kindness is the best thing that we can give as people and the most rewarding as well, if more people had this mindset the world would be such a better place.
I LOVE THIS!!! I did a list of things like this around Christmas and am continuing to do it throughout the year! It's a wonderful thing to surprise others and make their day :)
wow what an awesome thing to happen to you two what a kind gentleman who treated you to dinner. this world needs more people like him. and i think definitely pay it forward, pass on the kindness to others that you received yourself
Wow! That is so nice! I love that he did that! It is definitely a good idea to pay it forward!
aw I love this! what a kind and good hearted person. A while back on FB a bunch of friends of mine were asking who wanted to receive gifts from them. People were commenting saying "me!" and the original poster said that sometime with in the year they would drop off gifts at those peoples houses...Cute, sure..but it bugged me because there are SO MANY more people who really need it out there! I also love that your guy just randomly bought strangers who looked like they were having fun their meal. That to me is better than dropping off a random gift to a friend :)
Wow that's pretty cool! First thought is "must be nice to have enough money to be able to do that." second thought, "My husband and I should do something like that some day." I agree... we need to be paying it forward WAY more than we do. Thanks for the reminder.
I love this & I love that it happened for ROLEX!! This is a great reminder for everyone who reads to pay it forward!
I had someone do this at the Chick Fil A drive thru for us & I was so amazed! I couldn't believe it.
Blessings to you!! You deserve goodness!
This amazing. Goosebumps over here too. This is so beautiful. God bless his soul.
So cool that this happened to you! I've tried to pay for people's groceries before at the grocery store when I know that they're struggling, but it's a lot harder to do that. I love this idea!
That's pretty awesome stuff...I may have to do that one of these days...warms my heart indeed! Not mushy at all..
This same thing happened to Graham and me last week! Only it was done anonymously so we weren't able to find and thank the person afterward. I was so touched! It definitely inspired me to be a kinder person.
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